Be a Verb - Take Action

When you see someone going through a tough time, have you noticed 
how easily the words “just have faith”, (or something very similar), come 
out of your mouth? Or you pat them on the back and tell them things will 
work out. But is that really helpful to them? Think about the times you were 
troubled and someone said that to you? Did it help you feel at peace, or did 
it make you feel more troubled, irate, or bitter? Sometimes the best meaning 
intentions are not really helpful at all. I know that when I am in a tough spot, 
my perspective is blurred and my confidence is usually lacking. Instead of 
speaking mere words to someone, try doing something. 

You can be a good listener. Sometimes all that person needs is for someone to 
listen, to actually hear them, to know that there is someone that really cares. 

Be encouraging. Perhaps you can share a difficult time you experienced and
how you got through it. It may not work the same way for them, but it gives 
others hope.

Offer some practical help, if possible. For example, someone is distraught 
because they broke their leg and can't get around. Perhaps you can offer to 
do some grocery shopping. Or prepare them a meal.

Most importantly, put yourself in that person's place. How would you want 
others to respond to you? 

Remember, James 2:14-16 “What is the use (profit), my brethren, for anyone 
to profess to have faith if he has no [good] works [to show for it]? Can [such] 
faith save [his soul]? If a brother or sister is poorly clad and lacks food for each 
day, And one of you says to him, Good-bye! Keep [yourself] warm and well fed, 
without giving him the necessities for the body, what good does that do?”